I started my sexual education at age 19.
Not with a lover but with a book!
I read the UK's most notorious sex guide at that time.
I was terrified of losing my virginity and coming across as an 'amateur'.
So I bought myself the best lovers guide available complete with hand drawn pictures and so began my sexual education.
I told my boyfriend 'after' and not before, that I had been a virgin. He didn't believe me. I was too good.
In that respect I was disappointed, being great at sex is one thing, losing your viginity and not having the moment fully recognised is something else. He never did believe me either as we carried on having great sex.
Sexual liberation comes from throwing off the 'sex is bad, sex is dirty' shackles and embracing it as a natural, healthy and rewarding pass time for two mutually consenting adults to enjoy.
Throughout this blog and via various resources, I aim to help you and your partner experience a more rewarding sexual relationship than you ever dreamed possible.
Who doesn't want better sex?
Even if our sex lives are already great, the most experienced lovers with the least inhibitions can fall foul of routine, become complacent or worse, get bored!
Boredom in the bedroom is all too common.
Couples around the world are having sex in a routine almost clinical fashion whereby not only can each change of position be anticipated but the time and date for sex to take place has been 'booked' in advance.
Where is the thrill, the excitement, the instant erection when your lover undresses?
Women are not like men when it comes to sex.
We need our minds as well as our bodies stimulated.
'A fumble in the jungle' won't cut it on it's own!
Why do you think most women close their eyes during sex?
Are we close to orgasm and soaking up the moment, or are we visualising sex with someone else, somewhere else?
The answer to this can be both.
You guys think you have the monopoly on fantasy but women have this market well and truely cornered.
Which is why you need to learn how to help your partner relax so she reveals her deepest, dirtiest, most erotic sexual fantasies to you and not her imaginary lover.
She does have them...every sexual woman does.
You want to please her as well as have her perform like a porn star.
To do this you need to loosen up a bit too. Prudish men are no more appealing to women than are prudish women to men.
I'm not suggesting you join a swinging club and 'loosen up' by having sex with lots of other couples but find out what she wants from you, why she wants it and how she wants it.
You may be surprised by how kinky some of her requests are. Your normally quiet, mumsy lover might shock you with a very dirty secret.
Most women I know have them, but they are too afraid to share them with their partners. So they indulge their fantasy's on their own, while you are out walking the dog!
You are both missing out as together with greater communication, respect and understanding you can have the best sex either of you ever had.
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2 comments:
Do you know how to overcome fear of excessive tingling in the beginning of oral sex?
Hi Crowz
People generally overcome fears by facing them right?
Good luck with that :)
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