Is squirting a myth or magic?
It has to be one or the other as the process by which women appear to 'ejaculate' fluid from their vaginas during sex is completely unknown to biologists.
So women squirting (ejaculating) is either a myth or it's magic, which is it?
I've researched this topic already and many women insist they squirt fluid from inside their vaginas and not via their pee hole. So it's not a myth, but I'm not entirely convinced it's magic either.
What does female 'cum' look like?
When a woman squirts, the fluid is milky white and can shoot out. The area around you both will be very wet. The fluid doesn't smell or look like urine. But that doesn't mean it doesn't come from the same place! Where it comes from remains a mystery.
Biology aside, If you want to make your girlfriend or wife squirt, this is the way to do it.
Warm her up with some clit foreplay.
Massage her vagina with your fingers, tongue or a vibrator, gliding the tools of choice around her clit and inside. You need to do this to encourage the ejaculation fluid to fill up inside her G spot wall. You can feel the G spot area getting harder and thicker as the fluid builds up. See below for details of how to find her G spot!
How to find her 'G' spot
Inside the woman's vagina on the wall where her belly button is about 2 inches up is a soft spongy area.
If you insert your fingers (two is good) and curl them up so your hand makes a type of 'cup' shape you can find the 'G' spot. It's easier to find if you press against her vaginal wall from the opening upwards in stages. use firm pressure but not painful. Use a 'come hither' type of hand movement. Ie When you call someone with your hand you you pull your fingers towards you, release and then repeat several times.
I will post a video of this later to show the exact hand movement required.
When you reach the 'G' spot you feel a difference in her fleshy vagina and if you're pressure is firm and fast, you should get a very pleasurable response when you reach it!
If you identify the area you think the G spot is. Press on it firmly (not painfully) and see if your partner reports a sensation of wanting to 'pee'. Better still ask her how it feels.
If she feels like she wants to pee, she might become tense and tighten up so reassure her that this is a normal sensation. It may be better to discuss squirting with her at some point before hand so she knows that if and when she does squirt, it's not something to be worried about.
Don't discuss this right before sex though as anticipation spoils these things as you can over think sex if you're not careful.
If your partner has already emptied her bladder, she won't wet herself in the conventional sense but she may wet herself in the 'squirting sense'.
When you have the G spot located, stimulate it with the 'come hither' movement.
If you are bold enough to have had a conversation about squirting with your lover beforehand, let her know that when you try this that at the moment she feels she can't hold on any longer, as the fluid has built up so much, to just let go and 'push' the fluid out.
Just watch those ejaculation fluids fly!
You may want to prepare for some mess with towels on the bed before hand.
If your girlfriend is shy she may want to try stimulating herself through masturbation so she can squirt on her own before she tries it with you, so she knows what to expect and how to relax and let go when the moment comes.
Good luck!
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1 comments:
Hi Leah,
In my experience, some women seem to have a natural ability to 'squirt'.
I have also found that excitement is THE key! In other words, getting a woman extremely excited, prior to sex, usually has a positive impact on the amount of ejaculate created and shortens the length of time required to reach such a state. But I'm sure I'm preaching to the converted!
Any guys reading this should consider that foreplay can start days before a sexual encounter. This always has had a positive outcome for me, and the tease can be quite fun!
Regarding female ejaculate, I've experienced it in many forms, ranging from absolutely clear liquid with no odor, to thick, milky consistancy with a strong odor.
I've found g-spot manipulation to be a perfect way to create a squirt if my partner is laying flat on her back, but find clitoral stimulation to work best when my partner is face down, but again it all depends on the individual.
No matter what advice offered, there is no one way to achieve the desired results. The great news is the practice is really fun!
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Cheers
Curtis
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