Listen and pay attention to detail
I married a guy who all women adored (my bad luck) and one of his secrets to being adored by lots of women was that he made them all (without exception re age or beauty) feel like they were the only woman in the world.
He noticed changes in their hair styles, he listened to their problems, and he was a real pain in the ass! Grrr … but I fell for his charm just as every other woman did. He wasn’t particularly good looking or well educated he was just very attentive and interested in what women were about.
Women are always complaining that men don’t communicate enough so when a woman finds a man who does, she takes note.
Then there was a guy pal of mine, similar appeal but he was a more jovial cheeky chappy type. He had female friends many years older than him as he made them feel young, attractive and wanted.
So few men notice the details that when a woman find one who does, she can't help but be a little intrigued, flattered and.........interested.
Meanwhile the men that have us running for the trees are all about themselves.
Their good looks soon wear off after they’ve subjected us to hours of ‘man’ talk. I’ve sat through lectures on American football, snooker technique and even intimate details of how to string and electric guitar.
I listened intently too.
I was doing my ‘best ever girlfriend in the world routine’. It worked for a while too until my boredom threshold could take no more of it.
It’s not just man talk that turns us women off, it’s ‘man habits’. Picking of nose, releasing of wind, belching, scratching. These habits arise when the man has reached his comfort zone. He feels loved, safe and relaxed enough to indulge in these ungentlemanly rituals.
I never want a bloke to feel so loved up he can relax that much!
I jest of course, being in love requires that you love their little foibles.
But be warned fellas, if you fart early in the relationship, it could be the end of it!
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2 comments:
This isn't really anything close to good advice in my opinion.
Im not saying that these aren't true,
just that it isn't going to be helpful to anyone who isn't good with girls and who can't get a date.
Yes guys should actually listen to what they are saying and try not to bore them dribbling on about guitars for hours.
But these things are just basics,
not something that is going to get them their next date and potential girlfriend.
Guys could listen to girls talk all day long, but it isn't going to do much for them.
Though im not saying this to stick up for PUA Training, yes they can help guys and give them good advice (at a high price), but there products aren't all they're cracked up to be and i feel thay give guys a false impression of what there methods can actually do for you. There's some things you just can't teach.
P.S I didn't mean for this to come across as a rant, i just didn't think you're post was very good that's all.
Bobby :)
My post is a very short insight into why some men are better with women than others. I think you'll find as all men and all women are different, writing a guide on how to pull in less than 400 words is agoing to be a little challenging ;)
Meanwhile the response I've had to this same post on an article site from women has given it the thumbs up.
At the end of the day, we women know what we want more than you guys think you know how to deliver it.
Thanks for commenting
Leah
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