Here's the thing.
Your guy tells you about some problems he's having with work, a debt collector, a nuisance neighbour etc. He off loads all of his troubles on to you, his doting girlfriend or wife. You listen attentively, you sympathise and then...you offer advice.
You give him some very clear instructions regarding the steps he needs to take to resolve the problem.
At this point, your man starts to roll his eyes, interrupts continuously and adopts a 'tone'. Suddenly you are the little woman and not a valid source of advice.
He informs you your advice is not wanted, is not useful and will not be used by him. He will most likely request that you be quiet.
Fair enough...
Two days later, your man comes home with a big grin and a skip in his step.
He tells you that all his problems are over. He shared the details of the trouble he mentioned to you two days earlier with a male work colleague. The male colleague gave him some great advice which your man heeded now everything is right in the world once more.
You inquire as to the nature of the advice and lo.... it is the exact same advice that you gave him two days earlier.
Now if you're really brave, you'll use this as an 'I told you so' moment and milk it for all it is worth.
STOP!
If you've been down this road before you know it is pointless, because unless you were sensible and recorded the conversation on tape, he will deny it ever took place.
You have been warned!
Men do not like advice from women.
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